you can call me chubz or sassy. i live in the philippines, 41 years old, a widow with two grown sons—one is 16 years old, and the other is 13. i’m a singer in a band and also work as a waitress. we live a simple life in the province. i’ve raised my children to be loving and respectful because no matter where they go, with respect for others, anything is possible. i believe in living happily and contentedly, giving thanks every day for the life god provides. we love both dogs and cats, but recently, our pet dog passed away, which made my kids really sad, and we hope to find a new one soon.